Orgasm can and should be the stuff that dreams are made of.

Why are orgasms so damn illusive for some of us? And if they’re not, can they be more than a faint and fleeting flutter of the clitoris?

Some women seem to be programmed for release, and they do so with intensity while others hunt for a decent orgasm their whole life and in the end bemoan that it is rare or worse, non-existent.

The quest for the holy grail of orgasms—the full body—can be the most exquisite experience of your life if you follow a few simple steps.

Now, there is nothing wrong with a clitoral orgasm, those are fun, and more often than not, this is the one orgasm that we are most familiar with, whether self-guided or gifted by a partner.

But oh baby, there is so much more!

And just like a finely prepared meal, there is no hurrying this…at first. The whole body is an experience and not the fast food of sexual nirvana. When you allow yourself to fall into a tantric state of being before sex, the orgasm is a given, it cannot help but happen because you’ve already unleashed all of your senses beforehand.

the secret here: