I’ve been meaning to write this for a long time. I have so much empathy and love for those suffering through bad relationships. A couple of months ago I worked with someone who renewed my intention to write about this. So here is a snippet and a link.
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“Each of us has that right, that possibility, to invent ourselves daily. If a person does not invent herself, she will be invented. So, to be bodacious enough to invent ourselves is wise.” ~ Maya Angelou
In my very first coaching session with Anna, she told me that all her negative experiences in relationships, romantic and otherwise, were the result of burning off karma or centuries-old soul contracts.
This was a firm statement, a belief that influenced the way Anna beat herself up for choosing the wrong partners and allowing out of control family members to mistreat her.
As a person who deals in the esoteric every day, believes in time travel, and knows that soul agreements do exist, my job was to excavate what was true for Anna and what was a new-age mind trap.
Sometimes, we tell ourselves a story that covers all manner of evil and accept the role of victim in a situation because that story is easier to digest than to do the difficult work of seeing patterns for what they are. We’ve all been there.
Anna was viscerally aware of her emotional pain and truly did want to know where she was going wrong. The turnaround happened for her when she saw that her mind had tricked her into believing that she was to blame in the past for what was happening now and that it was best for her to keep learning this lesson.
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