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January 19, 2019January 19, 2019 Monika Carless

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Never underestimate a woman with a potty mouth. I'm pretty sure swearing averts heart attacks. . . This is some of my best coaching advice, haha!

I couldn't help reposting this from friend and colleague, @galinasinger 💕 . . There is so much unused sexual energy in women. Thousands of years of patriarchal repression and shaming of female sexuality have succeeded in completely disconnecting us from our erotic energy, from our creativity, from our life force. Sexual energy is creative energy. Creative energy is what propels us to engage with life, to transform our ideas and dreams into tangible manifestations, into creations aligned with our passion and purpose. For many centuries the creative capacity of women was channeled strictly into creating babies: patriarchal society needed people to work the fields, work in factories, dispatched to fight in wars, colonize territories. Today, as technology increasingly replaces people, female sexual and creative energy needs to be redirected from the focus on making babies, to aligning with our purpose and passion to make the needed changes in the world. Women have been giving their power away in pursuit of security via men, as society told us that a woman outside of a marriage has no value. The pursuit of, seduction of, and securing of a partner still takes enormous amount of energy, leaving many feeling like disempowered victims—betrayed, disappointed, and abandoned by the masculine. When we learn to find the masculine within, we get in touch with the sovereign, self-driven, empowered feminine, ready to stand up and use her creativity to benefit her tribe. When we feel sovereign and complete on our own, we can think freely and independently, which helps us break out of the old structures of behavior and thought, clear the old, fixed dynamics to make room for new ways of relating - with one another and the world in which we live. As we dare to question our prejudices, beliefs, and discriminations, we are capable of supporting what is just, balanced, and fair. This will allow us to discard prescribed outdated roles of family and society and focus on ushering in the new. . . #divinefeminine #joyandfreedom #onpurposelife #fearlessauthenticity #consciousnessshifts #sacredsexuality #surrender #sovereign #relationships #creatives #creatress #paradigms

"Well that doesn't sound very erotic" said a friend. "Do you have to talk about it, wouldn't that kinda kill the moment, or if you had to really pay attention, that's just a lot of work" I don't mean bring your clipboard to the bedroom, unless that's a thing, haha! I mean that the more in tune we are with our lover, and they with us, the easier it is to have amazing response to their touch. No words needed by then, communication and seduction happen all day long. Foreplay is not limited to touch or bed. By the time you're craving their hands on your body, you'll have already been present to them in a variety of ways. You know those romps where clothes are ripped off, they know exactly what you want, everything is in sync and you're both left deeply satisfied? That usually happens because you've been thinking, talking, texting, anticipating, right? Of course there are many, many ways to make love, but they all have these two things in common if it's going to bring you closer together or leave you with a sense of satisfaction (that does not mean orgasm necessarily). Try it. My partner and I noticed that the less we paid attention to presence and communication, the less we cultured desire. I've spoken to many couples who feel the same. Communication can be so much more than words also. A look, a smile, a thoughtful gesture, an impromptu dance in the kitchen... #sacredsexuality #tantra #surrender #relationships #romance #foreplay #seduction #partnerships #monikacarless #indieauthor #Intuitivecoach #thedarkpooltrilogy #canadianerotica #polyamory #wordwitch #pagan #magick #sensual #wildwoman

What is your process or practice of surrender? . . Surrender is about feeling in every part of yourself. It is about flow, release, acceptance of what is. Surrender is allowing, being out of our minds and in heart and experience. . . You can practice in any number of ways. Through a yoga pose... child's pose is my fave, you can practice through erotic fantasy by yourself or with a partner, you can meditate your way to surrender, in a float tank, facing a wound or fear... it's the willingness to have questions without answers. It's the unknown. . . Surrendering is giving up control. The heart wants surrender, the ego/mind wants control. Trying not to polarize, I seek balance. Trying not to banish my humanity, I acknowledge my fears then practice surrender. In my 60th year, this has become a daily search. . How do you practice this balance? . #surrender #intention #openingtoflow #meditate #thenewearth #consciousnessshifts #wildwoman #sherises #wordporn #wolfwisdom #witch #pagan #balance #ageofaquarius #monikacarless #occult #magick #sensual #thedarkpooltrilogy #Intuitivecoach #liveyourbestlife

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